对方催进度时说：「不着急，你忙完手上的再说。」实际情况多半是？
Someone chasing you says “No rush, finish what you're doing first.” In reality…?
全球翻车率（内测预估）
A他在客气地拒绝你
tā zài kè qì dì jù jué nǐ · they're politely turning you down
B这件事已经取消了
zhè jiàn shì yǐ jīng qǔ xiāo le · the whole thing has been cancelled
C真的完全不急
zhēn de wán quán bù jí · they really aren't in a hurry
✓挺着急的，只是不好意思催
tǐng zháo jí de，zhǐ shì bù hǎo yì si cuī · they're actually in a hurry, just too polite to push
真正不着急的人，是不会专门发消息说自己不着急的。
People who genuinely aren't in a hurry don't message you to say so.