中国朋友送你礼物,你说“太破费了”,最得体的后续是?
Receiving a gift you say “太破费了” (you spent too much). What's the graceful follow-up?
全球翻车率(内测预估)
A当场拆开点评一番
dāng chǎng chāi kāi diǎn píng yì fān · open it and comment on it right there
B坚决把礼物退回去给他
jiān jué bǎ lǐ wù tuì huí qù gěi tā · send it straight back
✓收下道谢,改天回礼
shōu xià dào xiè,gǎi tiān huí lǐ · accept it with thanks, then find a chance to reciprocate
D当场问它多少钱
dāng chǎng wèn tā duō shǎo qián · ask the price
客气归客气,礼还是要收的——收礼、道谢、记账,来日回礼。人情是流动的。
Protest politely, accept graciously, reciprocate later. 人情 (social debt) is meant to keep circulating, not to be settled.
