你跟中国朋友道谢太频繁，他说「你这么说就见外了」。他的意思是？
You thank a Chinese friend a bit too much and they say 你这么说就见外了. They mean…?
全球翻车率（内测预估）
✓别客气，你把我当外人
bié kè qì，nǐ bǎ wǒ dāng wài rén · stop being so formal, you're treating me like an outsider
B他希望你换一个感谢方式
tā xī wàng nǐ huàn yí gè gǎn xiè fāng shì · they'd like you to thank them differently
C你这话说错了
nǐ zhè huà shuō cuò le · you said the wrong thing
D他不想帮这个忙
tā bù xiǎng bāng zhè ge máng · they don't want to help
在中文里，客气是有距离的。太客气等于宣布「我们不熟」——所以他要把你降级成自己人。
In Chinese, politeness marks distance. Too much of it announces “we're not close” — so they're demoting you to insider status.