你跟中国朋友道谢太频繁，他说「你这么说就见外了」。他的意思是？
You thank a Chinese friend a bit too much and they say 你这么说就见外了. They mean…?
全球翻车率（内测预估）
✓别这么客气，你把我当外人了
bié zhè me kè qì，nǐ bǎ wǒ dāng wài rén le · stop being so formal, you're treating me like an outsider
B他希望你换个方式感谢
tā xī wàng nǐ huàn gè fāng shì gǎn xiè · they'd like you to thank them differently
C你说错话了
nǐ shuō cuò huà le · you said the wrong thing
D他不想帮这个忙
tā bù xiǎng bāng zhè ge máng · they don't want to help
在中文里，客气是有距离的。太客气等于宣布「我们不熟」——所以他要把你降级成自己人。
In Chinese, politeness marks distance. Too much of it announces “we're not close” — so they're demoting you to insider status.